Bishop TD Jakes, a prominent figure in the religious community, has come under heavy criticism for his recent comments about black women. The controversy ignited after Jakes, during a sermon in 2022, suggested that societal issues stem from women stepping out of traditional roles, a sentiment he has continued to express even after his divorce from Serita Jakes.

In his 2022 Father’s Day sermon, Jakes lamented that “we are raising women to become men,” criticizing modern black women for their independence and strength. “You are applauded in contemporary society by how tough, rough, nasty, mean, aggressive, hateful, and possessive you are, and you’re climbing the corporate ladder, but we are losing our families,” he declared, sparking heated debates about gender roles and expectations.

The backlash intensified with his divorce from Serita Jakes, who is also a black woman. Critics argue that Jakes’ harsh comments about black women, including blaming them for societal breakdowns and family issues, are not only misguided but also deeply personal given his recent marital issues. Many believe that Jakes’ criticisms are a reflection of his personal frustrations and failed marriage, rather than objective societal observations.

Jakes’ remarks have found support among some black men who share his views, further fueling the controversy. They praise him for voicing their dissatisfaction with black women, holding them responsible for various issues within the black community. However, this stance has been met with strong opposition from black women and their allies, who argue that such views are damaging and unfair.

“Perhaps after his marriage broke down, TD Jakes no longer had faith in Serita Jakes in particular and black women in general,” commented one critic. The criticism extends to his public denouncement of his ex-wife and the implications for their family. Reports suggest that long-time followers, particularly black women, feel betrayed by Jakes’ comments, questioning his respect and support for black women, including his daughters.

Serita Jakes’ decision to file for divorce, coupled with allegations of TD Jakes’ infidelity and harsh treatment, has only added to the public outcry. Serita and her children, including Sarah Jakes, have expressed their intent to pursue legal action, demanding significant financial support due to Serita’s contributions to Jakes’ ministry and their family.

Despite the controversy, Jakes’ daughter Sarah has taken on a leadership role within the church, a move that has also been fraught with tension. She has publicly sided with her mother and criticized her father’s actions, leading to further familial and public discord.

The fallout from Jakes’ remarks and the subsequent family drama has left many in the religious community and beyond questioning his views and leadership. As the debate continues, it highlights the broader issues of gender roles, respect, and the impact of public figures’ personal lives on their professional and public personas.