Selena Gomez’s relationship with producer Benny Blanco has sparked a whirlwind of reactions, leaving fans and followers both shocked and critical. Many are left questioning, “How did you get a woman like Selena Gomez to date you for real?”
This sentiment, expressed with every sense of disbelief, reflects the confusion and disappointment of many fans. One commentator admitted, “I lost a lot of respect for her when I found out you were dating her.” This reflects a broader sentiment among those who have followed Gomez’s career and persona, juxtaposed against Benny Blanco, whom they perceive as mismatched.
Selena Gomez, admired for her talent and humility, has always seemed untouchable and relatable. So when news broke, casually mentioned in a shower conversation, that Gomez was dating Benny Blanco, it caused an uproar. The disbelief was so intense that it led to a cold shower contemplation for some.
Gomez has always had a strong rapport with her fans, making her recent social media outbursts defending Blanco even more surprising. Historically, Gomez has been viewed as someone who treats her fans well, so when she publicly clapped back at concerned fans, it was unexpected.
Fans were particularly riled up after discovering an old clip where Blanco shaded her indirectly while praising her ex, Justin Bieber. Gomez’s loyal supporters, quick to defend her, were met with her own rebuke. She responded to comments criticizing Blanco, stating bluntly, “Well, yeah, and he’s still better than anyone I’ve ever been with.”
Her responses varied from defensive to dismissive. She told another commenter, “If you can’t accept me at my happiest, then don’t be in my life at all,” and assured another, “Oh sweetheart, I’ve been in therapy since I was 18. I know what’s best for me.”
This forthrightness was perceived by some as abrasive, and many fans felt alienated. However, Blanco himself seems quite self-aware and understanding of the backlash. In an interview with Andrew Santino, Blanco expressed his own disbelief at his relationship with Gomez. He acknowledged the criticism about his looks and past comments, reflecting a sense of insecurity and resignation to the public’s harsh judgments.
Despite the negative reactions, Blanco’s humility and openness about the situation paint a different picture. He’s well aware that Selena’s fans are not fond of him, and he even joked about how their dislike would prevent any significant fallout from Santino’s roasting.
Blanco’s reflections reveal a man who feels deeply the sting of public scrutiny, admitting that Selena dating him might appear as an act of charity in the eyes of some. Yet, he maintains that their relationship is genuine, underscoring his respect for her despite the negativity he faces.
The controversy highlights a broader issue of parasocial relationships, where fans feel a deep connection and entitlement to their idol’s personal life. Gomez’s attempts to set boundaries and defend her happiness have unfortunately added fuel to the fire.
As this relationship continues to unfold publicly, it remains to be seen how it will affect both Gomez and Blanco personally and professionally. The strain caused by social media backlash could have lasting impacts, but it also presents an opportunity for Gomez to assert her autonomy and for Blanco to gain acceptance.
In the end, the true nature of their relationship is known only to them. Fans and followers can only speculate and comment from afar, often forgetting that celebrities, too, are navigating their personal lives under an unforgiving spotlight.
What do you think? Was Selena right to defend her relationship so vehemently, or are fans justified in their critical stance towards Benny Blanco? Let us know your thoughts.
