Back in January 2004, the R&B world saw the end of an iconic couple: Usher and Chilli. Despite a deep bond that spanned three years, they called it quits, citing differences but maintaining mutual respect and affection. Yet, their connection would prove to be far from over. Even years later, Rozonda “Chilli” Thomas admitted she couldn’t quite move on, carrying lingering feelings that would last nearly 15 years. Now, with Chilli in a promising relationship with Matthew Lawrence, fans wonder if she has truly closed the door on her past with Usher.
Their romance, which blossomed in the early 2000s, had fans enamored. By 2003, they attended the Grammy Awards together, radiating undeniable chemistry. But in 2004, rumors swirled of Usher’s infidelity. Chilli confronted him, and, feeling betrayed, she ended the relationship. Reflecting on the split years later, she stated, “Sometimes you’re just supposed to be with people for a reason, and it’s not always a lifetime.”
Despite the breakup, Chilli struggled to let go of Usher, describing her feelings as a “lovesick” condition. They would continue a discreet relationship for over a decade. This long-lasting connection, kept hidden from the public eye, raised questions about its impact on Usher’s subsequent marriages. He married twice—first to Tamika Foster in 2007 and later to Grace Miguel in 2015. Both marriages eventually ended, and many fans speculated that his unresolved feelings for Chilli could have played a role.
As Chilli and Usher tried to move on with their lives, fans couldn’t help but note the emotional undertones in Usher’s 2004 album, Confessions. The timing of its release, coinciding with their breakup, fueled speculation that his music was inspired by their relationship, though Chilli denied this, stating that the songs were influenced by producer Jermaine Dupri’s experiences.
In 2019, Chilli finally put an end to her secret involvement with Usher. While they shared a magnetic chemistry on stage, offstage, they struggled with trust issues. By the time she met Lawrence in late 2022, she was ready for a new chapter. The two have since been inseparable, radiating happiness that those around them, including Chilli’s son, have noticed and celebrated.
Now, fans eagerly watch the relationship between Chilli and Lawrence, with rumors circulating that he may soon propose. Their union marks a fresh start for Chilli, who has left the complications of past relationships behind. Only time will tell if this “match made in heaven” will lead to a forever love.